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Leslie
14-07-2009, 01:14 PM
http://www.straitstimes.com/ST+Forum/Online+Story/STIStory_402633.html (http://www.straitstimes.com/ST+Forum/Online+Story/STIStory_402633.html)

July 14, 2009
Horrified by many profanities in matinee show on NS life

I ATTENDED the matinee show Own Time Own Target at the Drama Centre in
the National Library building over the weekend. One magazine lauded it
as a 'laugh out loud, rediscovery of zany side of national service'. I
presumed this meant it was a family-type show and took my two teenage
sons, aged 16 and 14, to the show on the premise of a MediaCorp-owned
magazine review.

To my horror, I was cringing uncomfortably in my seat the whole show,
highly disturbed by the language used. I do not have a problem that
the language was coarse and in dialects. But it was offensive when
every sentence and curse uttered by the officers (rightly or wrongly,
provoked or otherwise) at the NS boys in the drama was a profanity of
the female genitals.

The show was a full house, with young and old, males and females
equally represented. I am sure I was not the only one who was
disturbed by the excessive cursing and swearing by the officers at the
recruits. My observation was that people laughed out loud not at the
clumsiness of the recruits but mostly because they felt uncomfortable
with the profanities.

As a mother, I find it hard to imagine that after years of sheltered
school life where students are taught values, to be gentlemanly and
polite and respect their elders, these boys have to do NS run by
officers who do not blink an eye when they curse their mother, sister,
girlfriend and the whole female population by way of conversation.

My boys were shocked to realise that NS is a rite of passage where
they will be officially subjected to bullying, shouting and cursing -
nothing gentlemanly at all.

If this is a light-hearted look at life of NS boys during basic
military training, I fear to know what my boys will face in their
real-life situation when they enlist. Please, someone, assure me this
is not so.

Wee Hua Boey (Mdm)
:whistling

des_yeo03
14-07-2009, 01:27 PM
Piangz, typical singapore new age mothers, for goodness sake thats the army we are talking about, not some holiday chalet....:duh: And SAF nowdays is already not like last time....

Malakite
14-07-2009, 01:29 PM
Lol. what does she think NS life is? I recall fondly my platoon Sergent in BMT, every sentence ended with puay CB... lol bloody funny cause sometimes he wasn't scolding anyone...:evil:

des_yeo03
14-07-2009, 01:37 PM
this cracks me up :

My boys were shocked to realise that NS is a rite of passage where
they will be officially subjected to bullying, shouting and cursing -
nothing gentlemanly at all.

:shooting: :shooting: :shooting:

Darkbane
14-07-2009, 02:26 PM
lol.... imagine this... "go on, u can shoot first coz im a gentleman..."

Anomaly
14-07-2009, 05:24 PM
At least she is right when she said her sons are sheltered perhaps exceedingly so.

Koo
16-07-2009, 08:54 AM
She must be a frog in the well for not knowing that SAF and profanity go hand in hand supporting "one and other". Without the proper knowledge of profanity a 18 year old guy(/sometimes gal) is like "unarmed/unequipped" for the real world.

meow
17-07-2009, 08:49 AM
"As a mother, I find it hard to imagine that after years of sheltered
school life where students are taught values, to be gentlemanly and
polite and respect their elders, these boys have to do NS run by
officers who do not blink an eye when they curse their mother, sister,
girlfriend and the whole female population by way of conversation.

My boys were shocked to realise that NS is a rite of passage where
they will be officially subjected to bullying, shouting and cursing -
nothing gentlemanly at all."

hahaha didnt her husband tells her anything.....a good wake up call for her boys...:evil:

Hades
17-07-2009, 10:18 AM
That mother is just too way ignorant about army's life. This is every guys need to go through. If she doesn't want her sons to suffer in the camp, ask them to migrate to another country and change their citizenship as well :whistling

And also, we never declared that we are a gentleman at all. That was her own thought. :beatup:

Godmaster
17-07-2009, 03:51 PM
Swearing is common in the army, just hope your boys don't be influenced and swear in the outside world like nobody's biz when they leave.

Inside army, gentleman? For what?

Koo
18-07-2009, 10:05 PM
That mother is just too way ignorant about army's life. This is every guys need to go through. If she doesn't want her sons to suffer in the camp, ask them to migrate to another country and change their citizenship as well :whistling

And also, we never declared that we are a gentleman at all. That was her own thought. :beatup:

My buddy during training migrated to Canada since 9 years old also kena "recalled"by to SG as he dun have proper SG citizenship documents to become a Canadian. He told me he will make sure his brother dun come back to serve his NS.:duh: :question: :laugh:

jdelpiero
21-07-2009, 10:18 AM
That just goes to show how out of touch our female counterparts are.

Happily just take everything we have to go through for granted.

Yay to foreign chicks!! :hello:


For the record, it took me about a good 2-3 years to cut down on the swearing picked up in NS.

Leslie
21-07-2009, 10:35 AM
For the record, it took me about a good 2-3 years to cut down on the swearing picked up in NS.
Nb, I still not yet :evil: